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18 Apr, 2007

Coping with Emotional Eating

Posted by: velveteen In: Emotional Eating

I’m definitely a recovering emotional eater.  Lately I haven’t had a lot of issues with it, because I feel good, things are falling into place, and I have a great sense of control.  I KNOW I’m an emotional eater though, so I really do my best to keep it in check.  I actually read a book recently called “If Not Dieting… then what?” and it gave me some really good ways to discuss things with myself before doing any non-hungry eating.

So, I checked my email, and here was yet another excellent article from SparkPeople: absolutely perfect advise!

Get a Handle on Emotional Eating

The Secret Sabotage of Your Weight Loss Program

  — By Zach Van Hart, Staff Writer

Ever been angry or upset one minute and then on your couch eating the next, unable to remember why you started eating or how long you had spent munching? If so, then you have entered the world of emotional eating. It’s something than can happen to anyone, and one of the most common dieting obstacles out there.

Emotional eating at its best passes after a few minutes. At its worst, it can take over your life and cause you to eat uncontrollably for extended periods of time. And according to nutritional experts, 75% of overeating is caused by emotions. So don’t worry, if you suffer from emotional eating, you are not alone.

People often eat to relieve stress or to get something off their minds. The kicker is that stress, and the insulin jump that goes with it, may actually cause you to crave high sugar, high carbohydrate foods – foods that go straight to your waistline and cause you even more stress.

Rather than munching, it’s better to develop new skills for dealing with boredom, self-esteem issues and stress. Try to pinpoint the major reasons for your stress or unpleasant emotions, and see how you can turn the tide. Here are a few suggestions to combat your emotions:

  • Get your trigger foods out of the house, get your crutch foods out of arms’ reach
  • Go for a walk or jog. Physical activity relieves stress.
  • Do deep breathing and relaxation exercises
  • Keep a reminder of your goal handy
  • Talk to a friend
  • Visit and post on the support message boards
  • Surround yourself with positive re-enforcers, like pictures and people
  • Keep a journal that includes your best personal accomplishments
  • Track your eating patterns, including when and why you pick up food.

If you still seem to come back to food when your emotions get the best of you, you can at least be prepared. Eating large amounts of snacks is not a good thing. But if you eat low calorie foods, it’s not so bad. So stock the fridge with healthy alternatives, foods that have good nutritious value, are smaller in size, and will not pack on too many calories. Here are a few food suggestions to keep within arms’ reach:

  • Apple or orange slices
  • Carrot sticks
  • Banana
  • Broccoli
  • Whole wheat toast
  • Bran muffin
  • Fruit smoothie
  • Applesauce

7 Responses to "Coping with Emotional Eating"

1 | Kery

April 18th, 2007 at 4:19 pm

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I may check that book, it looks interesting.

Stress tends to send me into eating as well more than a few times only, but I wonder: does keeping healthy foods under the hand really work? Or at least after a while? (When I eat out of stress, no matter the quantity of low-cal alternatives in the fridge, you may be sure the next thing I’ll do after the healthy options will be to run at the nearest McDonald’s to get a dose of junk all the same… >.

2 | velveteen

April 18th, 2007 at 4:33 pm

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I think it’s more of creating the habit… we already have the habit of reaching for the doughnuts, chocolate, wine (in my “old life” case), McD’s, pizza, etc., and we need to somehow CHANGE that habit… somehow I feel a hell of a lot better if I’ve eaten too many almonds vs. an entire pepperoni pizza with extra cheese, if you know what I mean :D

And… if that’s ALL you have…you may think twice about eating it, because you may actually realise that you are about to go into non-hungry eating. That gives you a chance to find another way to deal with whatever emotions or stress is affecting you.

Definitely a question of making it a habit though! Don’t get me wrong, if I make the conscious decision to go for it, I will anyway!

3 | upsydaisy

April 18th, 2007 at 5:13 pm

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Thanks for stopping by my blog! I love visitors!

Great article you posted, I am SUCH an emotional eater. :(

I plan on searching my local library for the book you mentioned. I see a regular pattern with my weightloss/weightgain. Over and over I gain the weight back. I swear it’s so I can get control and lose it again. Wow. Hard to type/admit that.

4 | summersun

April 18th, 2007 at 5:26 pm

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Just wanted to say thanks for the comment on my blog hun! :) That article about emotional eating is so true, I’m just glad I am not alone!

Hope you are well, and I will look forward to reading more of your entries.

Z x

5 | velveteen

April 18th, 2007 at 5:38 pm

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Thanks for coming by! Upsydaisy, seriously, see my comment in your blog. It’s a GREAT book! Definitely got a lot out of it!

Z ~ you are so welcome! I’m amazed at how many great girls there are in the blogs that I can relate to in numerous ways. We can definitely support each other through our ups and downs!

6 | Kery

April 19th, 2007 at 6:58 am

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Hmm… I think running tight on money may help in my case. When I look in the fridge, I can only tell myself “if you eat it now, you won’t have anything to eat for the rest of the week-end. Do you really want that?”. LOL But it tends to be sooo hard no matter what!

(i must admit that having bought too much junk food in the past months contributed a lot to having less money… Gee. -_-)

7 | velveteen

April 19th, 2007 at 7:58 am

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Ah, money is ANOTHER reason why I don’t buy much junk (though we still have ‘issues’ with ordering pizza when we probably could spend less on a proper home cooked meal… there’s the lazy little devil on my shoulder again…). It is true though - you really almost have to have a sit down conversation with yourself to find out if you REALLY want it. Most of the time, if you stop to think about it, you’ll move away from the junk. It’s ok if you don’t though. That’s all part of the process of being aware :)

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