Hi - I did not fall off the face of the Earth although it feels like it. I took the CSET and think I failed it. It takes a MONTH to receive the scores. I hate that damn test. I bite the big wang at Math/Science. If I were good at it, I would have went into computer programing!
Kevin (my BF) sister is coming in from Boston tonight along with her husband. Laurie is special. Kevin was adopted a a very young age. Laurie is his birthsister. She was 8 when he was born. Thier mother, Kay, was divorced and 35. Kevin’s dad was 19 and they were not married. The relationship did not work out and Kay took her children and left. She told Kevin’s father that he was not really the father and left. Laurie stayed home from school for 6 months and took care of “her baby”. One day, Kay and Laurie took Kevin to a house and dropped him off. Laurie never saw him again. When Laurie asked about Kevin, she was told he was dead and to never bring him up again. In her heart, she knew this was not true but did not know how to find him. When I started dated my honey and found out he was adopted, (I am too) I begged him to let me and my friend find his family as his adoptive parents are dead. With his approval, the search began and we found Laurie in Boston. She cried when she found out “her Kevin” was not dead but instead a grown man and living not too far where from she grew up. She came out when we found her three years ago and is the biggest blessing anyone could ask for. She is wonderful and Kevin is so lucky to have her in his life. Kay died in 1999 but as I told Kevin, Laurie is the one who really took care of him and she is the one who always loved him. This story always makes me cry.
Long story, not short - things needed to get done around the house. It has been a s-l-o-w process and I chuckle when I read Island Girl’s blogs and her frustration because I think we live with the same man. The way to get them moving is to invite company or have a party. I invited company. The last two weeks have been hell with me averaging 4 hours a night of sleep. I painted two bedrooms last night and went to bed at 2 p.m. We are not done but progress has been made. Shutters have been installed, carpet is finally in the bedrooms and well, the painting is not done but getting there. I am afraid he will stop doing anything as his most favorite thing in the world is to watch television and movies.
I also quit my job after 19 years. That is another blog. It has been a hard adjustment to get used to.
I am sitting her listening to Prince. I put him on the get me off my butt. I am tired. Kevin won’t be here until 12:30 a.m. with his sister. I get to sleep in until 7:30 before I go to work. At some point, I am going to fall down. I drank my first RockStar Energy drink today - sugarfree of course. Not sure if it did anything for me. I think I am too tired for it to pep me up.
Okay back to work. Thank you for those who checked in on me because I haven’t blogged lately. I so appreciate it. The emails came when I was feeling very unimportant.
Have a wonderful day/week/weekend.
Big Hugs
Bobbie
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islandgrl
August 2nd, 2007 at 10:18 pm
Welcome back Bobbie. OMG I know how tired you are! I have been up since 4am going full tilt. I would love to sit for a minute right now and do nothing, but I know if I do, DH will take it as an invitation for him to sit and watch TV, BTW his favorite thing in the whole to do too!!!

We must trade pictures of our DH, maybe they are twins
Your story about your BF and his family broke my heart, but also made me happy that you helped him find the one person who he needed to find.
You are a special girl
Penny
August 4th, 2007 at 2:23 pm
Would you believe that my husband found out he was adopted when he was 48 years old? True story. What a story that was about Kevin - I bet he sooo appreciates you in his life (to say the very least). So glad you get to spend some time with two special people in your life. Much less you can do it in your newly painted home - yay!
Prince’s song “Kiss” is one of my favs to get me moving.
Hope you thoroughly enjoy your company!