Comments on: Parinoid? I think not! http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/toobig/2007/07/18/parinoid-i-think-not/ I Get By With A Little Help From My Friends Thu, 08 Jan 2009 04:57:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Penny http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/toobig/2007/07/18/parinoid-i-think-not/#comment-34 Penny Sun, 22 Jul 2007 06:03:43 +0000 http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/toobig/2007/07/18/parinoid-i-think-not/#comment-34 You know how strong you are for hanging in there so well, right? I sure can relate to the mirror thing and more from your post. Sometimes it can be tough. Keep writing about it - to me, blogging sure seems like great therapy. You know how strong you are for hanging in there so well, right? I sure can relate to the mirror thing and more from your post. Sometimes it can be tough. Keep writing about it - to me, blogging sure seems like great therapy.

]]> By: islandgrl http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/toobig/2007/07/18/parinoid-i-think-not/#comment-32 islandgrl Sat, 21 Jul 2007 11:56:34 +0000 http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/toobig/2007/07/18/parinoid-i-think-not/#comment-32 I agree about the sabotage. My DH does the same. I don't think he means to, but I think he is jealous, he knows he has to lose weight as well. And the TV, OMG, don't get me started on that. He would live in front of the damn TV day in and day out and not move at all. He is a lump! :) I agree about the sabotage. My DH does the same. I don’t think he means to, but I think he is jealous, he knows he has to lose weight as well.
And the TV, OMG, don’t get me started on that. He would live in front of the damn TV day in and day out and not move at all. He is a lump! :)

]]> By: round http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/toobig/2007/07/18/parinoid-i-think-not/#comment-31 round Thu, 19 Jul 2007 12:01:37 +0000 http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/toobig/2007/07/18/parinoid-i-think-not/#comment-31 I have often wondered what is it about hearing I am watching what I eat that brings out strange reactions in others. I don't think it's a deliberate attempt to sabotage, but maybe they feel there is a priority in competition w them. Or maybe they get nervous about what might happen in the future when you've lost weight - will you still want them, etc. Or that they know they should pay attention to what they eat too, but since they don't want to, they don't want you too either.... Not easy, that's for sure. Try to be kind with yourself - hating yourself & thinking you are ugly are hard places to live... I have often wondered what is it about hearing I am watching what I eat that brings out strange reactions in others. I don’t think it’s a deliberate attempt to sabotage, but maybe they feel there is a priority in competition w them. Or maybe they get nervous about what might happen in the future when you’ve lost weight - will you still want them, etc. Or that they know they should pay attention to what they eat too, but since they don’t want to, they don’t want you too either…. Not easy, that’s for sure.

Try to be kind with yourself - hating yourself & thinking you are ugly are hard places to live…

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