http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/toobig/2007/06/25/dealing-with-it/ I Get By With A Little Help From My Friends Thu, 08 Jan 2009 05:55:23 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/toobig/2007/06/25/dealing-with-it/#comment-3 jarjonja Tue, 26 Jun 2007 02:03:54 +0000 http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/toobig/2007/06/25/dealing-with-it/#comment-3 Glad you have blogged. That is a good way to start. A blog won't be a cure but it sure feels good...doesn't it! The main thing is you have to forgive both you and Mike. He has moved on (and it probably won't last-they seldom do)but you can move on and take care of you. I am 50 years old and in the last 6 months have lost 65 pounds. You are not too old!! You, like me,(I was also sexually molested as a child) always turned to food for emotional help and to be honest it does make you feel better but...it is also hurting you. My daughter kept after me telling me I was digging my grave with a spoon and that was so true!!! You are a lot stronger than you give yourself credit for. You made it through the divorce to live another day. Personally I think (though you don't see it now) he did you a favor. Now do yourself a favor and lose the weight!!! Sounds like you have a wonderful man who loves you. Take that and run with it, few women are ever that fortunate!! God bless, Judy Glad you have blogged. That is a good way to start. A blog won’t be a cure but it sure feels good…doesn’t it!
The main thing is you have to forgive both you and Mike. He has moved on (and it probably won’t last-they seldom do)but you can move on and take care of you.
I am 50 years old and in the last 6 months have lost 65 pounds. You are not too old!!
You, like me,(I was also sexually molested as a child) always turned to food for emotional help and to be honest it does make you feel better but…it is also hurting you. My daughter kept after me telling me I was digging my grave with a spoon and that was so true!!!
You are a lot stronger than you give yourself credit for. You made it through the divorce to live another day. Personally I think (though you don’t see it now) he did you a favor. Now do yourself a favor and lose the weight!!!
Sounds like you have a wonderful man who loves you. Take that and run with it, few women are ever that fortunate!!
God bless,
Judy

]]> http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/toobig/2007/06/25/dealing-with-it/#comment-2 fl0wer Tue, 26 Jun 2007 01:37:48 +0000 http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/toobig/2007/06/25/dealing-with-it/#comment-2 What you wrote was beautiful, as it was from the heart. I am so sorry he hurt you so deeply. I hope this is the therapy that your soul needs and you can start a brand new life. {{{hugs}}} What you wrote was beautiful, as it was from the heart. I am so sorry he hurt you so deeply. I hope this is the therapy that your soul needs and you can start a brand new life. {{{hugs}}}

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