Comments on: the hardest month http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/ Just another 3fatchicks.com weblog Wed, 07 Jan 2009 18:11:49 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: canadianchunky http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-418 canadianchunky Sat, 22 Dec 2007 01:51:27 +0000 http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-418 December is one of the hardest months according to studies. I can see why you are so sombre. Hey, you were born in December so there must be some positive sparks to it. Just because people in your family have untimely deaths does not mean you must succumb to one. I strongly believe we control 90% of what happens to us. Take some chocolate time, reflect on all that is good, and in the New Year allow yourself to throw off the throwblanket, toss the flannels pjs and uncocoon the new you. It is hard, it is a huge challenge, but I know you are up to it. You have many friends here. You may not know our faces, but I hope you can feel our hearts. Come to Toronto and I will throw you a birthday party for the ages! Cheers! December is one of the hardest months according to studies. I can see why you are so sombre. Hey, you were born in December so there must be some positive sparks to it. Just because people in your family have untimely deaths does not mean you must succumb to one. I strongly believe we control 90% of what happens to us. Take some chocolate time, reflect on all that is good, and in the New Year allow yourself to throw off the throwblanket, toss the flannels pjs and uncocoon the new you. It is hard, it is a huge challenge, but I know you are up to it. You have many friends here. You may not know our faces, but I hope you can feel our hearts.

Come to Toronto and I will throw you a birthday party for the ages!

Cheers!

]]> By: iniya http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-417 iniya Fri, 21 Dec 2007 05:05:49 +0000 http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-417 Hope you are feeling a little better. I wish I could do something. a big warm hug, iniya Hope you are feeling a little better. I wish I could do something.

a big warm hug,

iniya

]]> By: ggmugsy http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-416 ggmugsy Thu, 20 Dec 2007 23:18:53 +0000 http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-416 I had no idea this month was so terrible for you. I'm SO SORRY. My sister died 12/14 in my time zone, 12/15 in hers. It sucks. My goal is to not give a lot of gifts but to focus on the simple pleasures of Christmas this year. Lights on the tree, hot cocoa with marshmallows, all the wonderful Christmas movies I remember from childhood. The Bells of St. Maries is my FAVORITE. You've been an inspiration to me since I found 3FC. I'm sending you the biggest, warmest, most low-calorie cocoa laden hug I can muster!!! Merry Christmas!!! I had no idea this month was so terrible for you. I’m SO SORRY. My sister died 12/14 in my time zone, 12/15 in hers. It sucks.

My goal is to not give a lot of gifts but to focus on the simple pleasures of Christmas this year. Lights on the tree, hot cocoa with marshmallows, all the wonderful Christmas movies I remember from childhood. The Bells of St. Maries is my FAVORITE.

You’ve been an inspiration to me since I found 3FC. I’m sending you the biggest, warmest, most low-calorie cocoa laden hug I can muster!!!

Merry Christmas!!!

]]> By: jarjonja http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-415 jarjonja Thu, 20 Dec 2007 23:18:04 +0000 http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-415 Know how you feel about December. I lost my mom on Christmas Day and it has NEVER been the same! When they came in and took down the Christmas tree and put in funeral chairs and guest books and that white wreath that pretty much changes your perception of Christmas from then on. My kids were small at the time so I tried to hold it together on Christmases for their sake but it's never been easy! I too hope December will pass quickly in a way but then my only daughter turns 18 on the 28th and is getting married on January first so I will be on an emotional rollercoaster right there with ya for awhile. Take care and do the best you can you only have a few days left then the New Year blooms!! Hugs, Judy Know how you feel about December. I lost my mom on Christmas Day and it has NEVER been the same! When they came in and took down the Christmas tree and put in funeral chairs and guest books and that white wreath that pretty much changes your perception of Christmas from then on. My kids were small at the time so I tried to hold it together on Christmases for their sake but it’s never been easy!
I too hope December will pass quickly in a way but then my only daughter turns 18 on the 28th and is getting married on January first so I will be on an emotional rollercoaster right there with ya for awhile.
Take care and do the best you can you only have a few days left then the New Year blooms!!
Hugs,
Judy

]]> By: julieesg http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-414 julieesg Thu, 20 Dec 2007 22:32:48 +0000 http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-414 p.s. Glad you liked the chicken! p.s. Glad you liked the chicken!

]]> By: rubyjean http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-413 rubyjean Thu, 20 Dec 2007 18:09:04 +0000 http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-413 December's not your month, aye? I have troubles with March. I hope that you manage to rest yourself, and somehow in there will find a glimmer of light. I'm sending you Good Wishes for your birthday, and for your anniversary and for Christmas...Love, RubyJean December’s not your month, aye? I have troubles with March. I hope that you manage to rest yourself, and somehow in there will find a glimmer of light. I’m sending you Good Wishes for your birthday, and for your anniversary and for Christmas…Love, RubyJean

]]> By: lynard http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-412 lynard Thu, 20 Dec 2007 15:21:30 +0000 http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-412 You've definitely had a rough time of it in Dec. Hope things look up for you soon. Lyn You’ve definitely had a rough time of it in Dec. Hope things look up for you soon.

Lyn

]]> By: julieesg http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-411 julieesg Thu, 20 Dec 2007 14:40:43 +0000 http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-411 Hugs to you. Take extra good care of yourself this month. Hugs to you. Take extra good care of yourself this month.

]]> By: iniya http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-410 iniya Thu, 20 Dec 2007 07:12:17 +0000 http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-410 Lots of love for you. - iniya Lots of love for you. - iniya

]]> By: leanmoomercows http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-409 leanmoomercows Thu, 20 Dec 2007 03:29:38 +0000 http://3fatchicks.com/diet-blogs/soclose/2007/12/19/the-hardest-month/#comment-409 I really hope everything looks up for you. I'm sorry December is such a hard month for you, especially since it's Christmas season AND your birthday. At least the new year will start out better than it ended, right? Try your best to get through this month. Don't try and lose weight, focus on taking care of yourself emotionally. Once January rolls around and you're feeling more up to, start your process again. Good luck, and again, I hope everything gets better for you. I really hope everything looks up for you. I’m sorry December is such a hard month for you, especially since it’s Christmas season AND your birthday. At least the new year will start out better than it ended, right? Try your best to get through this month. Don’t try and lose weight, focus on taking care of yourself emotionally. Once January rolls around and you’re feeling more up to, start your process again.

Good luck, and again, I hope everything gets better for you.

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