I will keep this short- I have decided not to  track my calories for the day. It is a day to enjoy, and not worry about what or what not to eat. We did just get back from an early dinner- and my fried clams were delicious! I left most of the fries, and did eat most of my coleslaw. Lemonade for my beverage! My sweet sweet DH gave me a Pandora bracelet! I had wanted one, and I LOVE it! My children will be home at 7pm, but all 3 kids called me earlier today with their wishes. What a great day.  So back on track tomorrow, but I will enjoy my slice of cheesecake later, and not worry about calories for the day.  I think Robyn summed it up today. WE cant burden ourselves with too many rules and regulations, or it just isnt fun anymore.   If this is for a lifetime, then I can celebrate my birthday with no regrets. Love you guys! Thanks for all your well wishes. My birthing day has been AWESOME!