Slacking off…
General, Low Stress Weight Loss January 29th, 2008I have been slacking off.
It all starts where it always does - I’ve not been keeping my food diary for the past 8 days. I am such a bad girl. It’s always fine for about a week, and then…. one little bite becomes two. No accountability, no visibility.
Slowly the old habits reassert themselves.
Today I noticed that I ate all of every meal. I haven’t done that in several weeks. It comes on so slowly. If I mess up one meal I generally get back on it for the next. But this weekend I paid less attention, and then today, none at all.
I don’t see what choice I have other than to get more serious with myself. There is “no stress weight loss” and then there is “no weight loss at all”. I still think I can do it low stress, but I need to do it with a little bit more attention. Last September I had come up with a scoring system for each day that was a kind of checklist. I think I’m going to dig that out and re-work it for my current plans, and commit to tracking it for the month of February.
On the menu front, I ate a serving of the lentil soup for lunch, and made the celery root puree for dinner (with roast beef, as planned). I was the only one to like the celery root, as it turns out. My DH’s plans to travel have been put off for a few days, so a week of me and veggies will be less do-able but we’ll see where it takes me. I also made a pear and chocolate crumble for dessert. We had pears starting to get too old, and my DH found the recipe when flipping through one of my new cooking magazines, so…. Definitely not diet. It was too sweet, not really worth the calories or the trouble. I like pears natural better.
January 29th, 2008 at 1:51 pm
Gosh I hear where you are coming from. Yesterday I noticed that I am not paying attention plus I am eatting entirely too often. I need to journal even if I am not actively counting points. So easy to ignore the “extras” if you don’t at least write it down.
January 29th, 2008 at 2:01 pm
I write down every bite that goes into my mouth or I will eat far too much. If I write it down I see exactly how much I am eating and make myself accountable.
January 29th, 2008 at 2:16 pm
I’m with you on liking pears as they are–in fact, I have 2 on my kitchen counter right now just waiting.
Yep, SOOOOO easy to slip; but it’s the willingness to recognize this and try again that’s important.
January 29th, 2008 at 5:10 pm
I know where you are coming from we all hit those gray areas. You’ll get your focus back and be back on track in no time.
January 29th, 2008 at 6:17 pm
It’s amazing how quickly the old habits creep back in, isn’t it? There must be a way to pay attention without feeling stressed, but I’m not sure I’ve found it yet. Let us know if you do.
January 29th, 2008 at 6:28 pm
I’ve been living in the No Visibility zone for years it seems. Just like the monkey HearNoEvil ~ SeeNoEvil . We drag around our own ball and chain and set of masks, ear plugs, and sheesh, how much more difficult could our self imposed yoke be?
I kind of doubt our No Stress is entirely what it seems. I’ve been doing the same thing, while under the angst of no poundage gone.
Yes, lets drop the yoke, where we stand, and step forth and get serious!
January 29th, 2008 at 7:10 pm
January is the easiest month of the year to slack off because summer is still six months away and it’s so dreary outside. Pat yourself on the back for recognizing that you’ve been slipping….always step one, right? Dee
January 29th, 2008 at 8:37 pm
First of all I would like to thank you for your continued support and comments, even though I have been missing in action and not paying attention to anyone but myself.
And second, I have been slacking too. I haven’t been to the gym since Thursday and I was thinking to myself this morning “Oh I’ll just skip one more day, and then I’ll go back….” And my diet is turning into one big slippery slope.
I need to get serious too.
January 29th, 2008 at 9:25 pm
I think you are really eating healthy, even if you are finishing every meal. Most people just go to McDonald’s, you actually eat quality stuff. Better to finish your plate on quality food than a bag of McDonald’s. You really are doing good, and I’m sure you’ll get back on track. One week or so of finishing your food won’t kill you, and you seem really committed to the idea of ‘low stress weight loss’.
January 29th, 2008 at 9:44 pm
“Constant vigilance” and all that, huh…
They say that it takes 21 days to create a good habit/lose a bad habit. I say: I WISH!!! A bad habit can creep back on me ONE YEAR later if I don’t pay attention to it. It’s so tiring at times. But being aware of it at least gives us the edge over it… We can do what it takes to prevent all those little bad habits from becoming our daily loy again.
Re: the pears, I get the same thing with every fruit, in fact. I sort of like cake with apples in it, for instance, but I’ll still pick the real thing over the baked goods. I don’t know why. I have the feeling that deep down, I’m a healthy foods-loving girl, but two decades of family hammering bad habits into me have made things hard.
January 29th, 2008 at 10:22 pm
It’s good you caught yourself before you slipped completely back. I know I usually have a few days or a week of denial as I’m slipping and then wake up like waking up from a nightmare thinking “Argh, what have I been doing?” I agree, your meals still seem quite healthy and at least there is that.
January 29th, 2008 at 11:48 pm
It seems that the first few weeks of the year were easy for me, but I have noticed that I have been slipping a little, too! I guess it is good to recognize it quickly, be aware of it, and find a new recipe, exercise, or goal to help stay motivated?
January 30th, 2008 at 5:16 am
Hmm. Pears and chocolate. Definitely sounds indulgent. I am sorry it wasn’t worth it. I hate that. Tomorrow is always another day. I am always having to tell myself that when I am not satisfied with how I did that day.
Which is pretty much everyday. Oh well.
January 30th, 2008 at 5:22 am
You go girl! Was it you who asked for pics of me? Either way, I put new ones up. Just face pics but in a week I’m putting up one of me in a bikini WOOT! Keep it up and stay motivated!
XOXOXOX (The X’s are hugs and the O’s are doughnuts)
February 5th, 2008 at 5:03 am
Good for you for recognizing what you needed to do to get back on track. I too have to keep track of what I eat otherwise it is amazing to get off track and eat the entire elephant. Thank you for the reminder that we need keep track of what we eat -