What I love about me
Self-esteem July 19th, 2007I have just been reading several weight loss blogs for the past hour, and I was saddened to see how many people are beating themselves up, hating something about their bodies, feeling like failures, etc.
I’ve been there, and I honestly can’t say how I got out of that space. I go there from time to time, but now it’s brief visits — most of the time I live in a much nicer place, more accepting. I am FAR from perfect. All of the negative things I could say about myself are probably true on some level - but so are all the positives, and that’s where my focus is.
So, just to put my mind in a better place (and then take a break from the computer!) here are 5 things I love about me, and forcing myself to limit to the physical :
- My eyes - my eyes are unique, on first glance they look hazel or green, but in fact they have sapphire blue rims and gold irises.
- My lips - are full and fleshy and great for kissing. I don’t need any of those “lip plumping” glosses - my lips are naturally pouty
- My legs - are strong and well-proportioned, able to take me long distances
- My boobs -(ok, this is harder, I could also list what I DON’T like about them)… are ‘voluptuous’ and give me curves and femininity, and are quite sensual.
- My fingernails - (yes, 5 was difficult!) are healthy and clear, strong, well-shaped and help make my hands look nice.
Whew, once I got past my face that was not-so-easy, but I think it is a good exercise… I’d like to be able to say something positive about every part of my body… maybe in the future.
July 19th, 2007 at 2:49 pm
That was so nice. I might just have to do that too.
July 19th, 2007 at 3:48 pm
Right on, sister. Good to see you appreciating the wonderful body you’ve been given. Our bodies do so many amazing things for us. I think, too, if we focus on how well they work as opposed to just how inherently pretty they are we’d all fee a lot better about ourselves.
July 19th, 2007 at 5:58 pm
Hi Round,
Just came to check out what you have to say after noticing your post on mine!
Here are two more Positive things I know about you:
You have a Great Plan for Weight loss. I lost my first 100
with just that…
You have a Great Attitude!
Enjoy your Journey, it’s your life!
NRyker
July 19th, 2007 at 8:04 pm
I love reading your blog. WTG on seeing things positive!
July 19th, 2007 at 8:26 pm
I was so glad you discovered my blog (thanks for the great comments), because that meant I now discovered yours. What a great, perky blog you have! That’s a thought provoking exercise that I plan on borrowing from you - if I may - very soon in the future.
July 19th, 2007 at 10:29 pm
Good for you- a lot of times it’s so much easier for us to beat ourselves up than to celebrate the good things that others must see and like about us. A positive attitude is the way to go!