Men are stupid Part II
I was on msn last night and Ian signed in. I waited a while - doing the whole ‘playing it cool’ thing and he didn’t initiate anything. So I gave in and started a conversation. He totally ignored me, stayed online for about 45 minutes then signed out again!
Bethany brought him up this morning, about him not texting me back about going out yesterday with his daughter, and so I told her about last night. She said “I don’t think he likes you any more.” Out of the mouths of babes.
Men are bastards.
Anyway, so I think I am single again, unless he’s got a bloody good excuse.


Men *are* stupid. I live with mine and just about throttle him half the time, but at least he’s alright for the other half. I’m really sorry to hear Ian is being such a [swear word] though.
One thing I wanted to suggest is that you try Bravissimo for bras. If you go to http://www.bravissimo.co.uk it’ll tell you where your nearest shop is. I really really recommend it. When I was measured in Debenhams they got me as a 34D. Bravissimo measure without tape though - it tells you how they measure on their website (no groping though, apparently this is something a lot of people think they do). ANYWAY, when I went there I was measured as a 32F and I can’t describe to you the difference that size has made. My boobs are held up rather than weighing down, and the chest size means the underwire isn’t digging in anymore (I thought that meant it was too small - apparently it means it’s too big and your boobs make it dig in).
Sorry, I’m prattling on, but I’d really recommend it. My new bras make me look like I’ve lost a dress size and have given me so much confidence back - it really might be worth your while.
And also well done for your progress so far and your dress is lovely!
Katy
Hi - my nearest Bravissimo is about 60 miles away - a fair way to go tho.
I was pleased with the fitting I had - they measured my underbust but then went off the fit for the cup size - I had to try on a million different bras.
Problem is, weight-loss plus breastfeeding means my bra size varies from hour to hour!!
But when I was fitted I felt a whole lot better - I couldn’t even bear to wear my old bra out of the shop. I did know it was too big though - hence me going and getting fitted. I think the size they gave me is right at the moment.