Why vibrators are better then men
19Oct2008 Filed under: General Author: Eny1. They don’t expect you to do all the work
2. They don’t get irritated with you when you can’t ride them like a porn star - HELLO I’M #188! IT HURTS MY KNEES TO DO THAT FOR SO LONG!
3. They don’t dissappoint you by not having cuddle time after, or any type of forepley before hand… you just don’t expect it from something battery operated!
Ok - back ground story. My hubby and I’s sex drives are WAY OFF. My is very high, and his much lower. Everytime we do have sex, I’m the one to initiate, and he doesn’t do any touching etc. Well this morning I decided that Iw as going to take matters into my own hands, since it’s been over a week - and I woke him up to “do the deed”. He literally just layed there… nothing else - just layed there. Then when I was done, I got off of him and then he seemed frusterated because he “didn’t get his” - well you know what - IF YOU ACTED LIKE YOU ACTUALLY WANTED ME THEN I MIGHT CARE! Ok truth is - I do care… It hurts to know that I can’t physically please him… it’s not that he won’t try new things - he just doesn’t have any interest. UGH! It’s SO frustrating. He tells me that it’s not that he doesn’t want me, he does desire me etc. He just doesn’t want it as much as I do… which is fine - but DAMN can’t you fake it enough for me to have enjoyed it, and not left crying afterwards? Talk about a HUGE ego blow!!!
Sorry to post this here… I’m just frustrated and trying desperately to NOT go to the fridge! I think DD and I are going to walk to the store so i can get some soda… *sigh* 
- Tags: frustration, relationships, sex
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brseay
October 20th, 2008 at 12:05 pm
My hubby and I also have mis-matched sex drives and it’s amazing how much it affects our daily life. He enjoys it once we get into it, but sometimes I feel like he’s doing me a favor. And I think it’s harder to take when it’s the woman wanting it more than the man…all you ever hear about are women who have to slap their husbands’ hands away and tell them “no”.
I wonder how many other women struggle with the same problem that we do and just don’t talk about it.
I don’t have a solution for you b/c we have been struggling w/this for years. If you figure out how to solve the problem let me know, ok?
hunnybunnie
October 20th, 2008 at 1:55 pm
im in the same boat with you, my hubs started out that way, with less of a drive then me….and it can be REALLY frustrating…but i had to talk to him about making it worth it when we did “get to it” ive found that the more satisfying the experience it is, the less bothered i am by having to wait a few days between them, it builds up anticipation. (my spellings awful and i dont have spell check, sorry)