Do you ever say to yourself…..
“One Day when I’m skinny I will (fill in the blank)”…..
Sometimes I find myself in the trap of ‘one day’….instead of just living life now, for some reason I put off things until “one day” which really translates to one day when I am skinny/thin. Like for some reason I am not good enough as I am so thus, I can only pine for these desires and patiently wait for them until I am ‘thin’.
Here are some of my “one day” wishes: To wear a pair of Levi 501 jeans, to feel incredibly sexy in anything I wear, to look in the mirror NAKED and be happy, to one day find a man who will like me at any size and probably the most significant is to walk with my head held up high. I tend to look down when I walk.
I think most of the above items are doable. Now the question remains do I achieve them now or wait for ‘one day’…..
I know what you mean- my head says do these things now, but emotionally, I really want to wait until I’m ‘perfect’. I know it’s not healthy, but at the same time, it’s only a year of my life… I don’t know the answer. K
Do it now. Funny you should write this. Check out my post for yesterday (Who am I?) I’ve finally realized I’ve got to *be* the person I see myself as (and look like her) rather than just sitting around waiting for it to magically happen when… (whatever).
Delita
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